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Advantages of a positive frame of mind.
February 5, 2010
Life will not be all plain sailing. Indeed, hardship, trials and tribulations are part and parcel of being. Encountering problems is not a bad thing, what matters is the way we deal with it. A positive frame of mind is imperative for so many reasons. Positive thinking is proven to boost performance in productivity and quality. We are typically more confident and do better when we are feeling good and well.
I have found biological explanations of this. A positive frame of mind is because of elevated levels of neuro transmitters such as serotonin that regulate the efficiency capabilities of the brain. The knock results of a positive frame of mind also include enhanced wellbeing not only enhanced mental health but better in the physical sense aswell. This is because of the increase to the immune system that a positive frame of mind can give you.
The reverse is also true, when we are depressed we are far more liable to getting other diseases and mental health issues. Our interaction with people deteriorate, we begin to think irrationally and our confidents can drop. In a nutshell this is a frame of mind that is best to avoid at all costs. Feeling depressed ever so often is not unusual but the way we choose to deal with an issue comes from our state of mind.
A positive mental attitude is also about giving you a can do attitude. Those who think positively are far more likely to see challenges rather than problems or opportunities instead of difficulties. For instance, entrepreneurs that are successful generally are because they are able to spot opportunities for growth in a sector which others only see troubles in. The positive mental attitude of a successful individual means that opportunity becomes a reality; because they also have the drive and motivation to succeed and make their vision come true. So as you can see there is much to be gained from a positive mental attitude. The issue for lots of people is in developing one in the first place.
Creating a positive frame of mind is not some new aged trend. For ages religious men and scholars alike searched for and created techniques to harness an inner harmony. While this may have begun to make mankind closer to god the essence of this idea is just as relevant nowadays. That a positive frame of mind makes us closer to the divine while a negative frame of mind can only lead us in to ways of being which are a detriment to our lives. Monks realised this long ago which is why they devote themselves to a life of abstinence and mental and spiritual fulfilment.
Among the best ways to determine your frame of mind is to think of how you are with other people. A good way to do this is to picture how you behave towards people you do not know. Are you confident and open to meeting and talking with people? Or are you insular and shy. Believe it or not one of the best ways to conquer a negative frame of mind is to alter your frame of mind to the world around you and that means the people in it too. If you are usually uneasy around others then try this experiment.
One night force yourself to strike up a conversation at random in a public place. Do not worry about how you look or appear or what you talk about. A reference about the weather or anything will do. Just try it and note how you feel afterwards.
You see, how you are with other people will influence the opportunities you get presented. Think about it like this who is the most likely to get a job between two people of equivalent ability and experience except for one difference, One is uptight and uncomforable with others and the other is easy going and comfortable with other people. If I was the boss I know which one I would pick for the Job.
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